I love sex

That's the message for today! I LOVE SEX! As a Sex educator and an intimacy coach, I hear so many couples expressing dissatisfaction with sex life... not us... after more than a decade of sex, it seems that our love life only gets better with age:-)

We made such sweet love last night, it almost made me cry tears of joy. The feeling of your man's hands expertly caressing your body, pushing your buttons, and bringing you to that ecstatic state is simply divine. I suppose I will go into more detail as the challenge continues and I become increasingly comfortable with blogging, so stay tuned:-)

Double Take

Day 3 was a wonderful day for my husband and I. For some reason, we were overly affectionate with one another. We enjoyed some goat's cheese, crackers, olives, and red wine for lunch, had a wonderful family dinner and spent the rest of the evening cuddling and chatting.

Everyone is back to school, so the kids were in bed earlier than usual. We laid in bed chatting as and then he made his move:-) This challenge makes me think about things on a deeper level. The fine details of our sexual relationship stand out more in my mind.

What I have noticed most is that the more sex we have, the more sex we desire:-) It doesn't seem possible for us to lose interest. The first thing he did last night during our romantic encounter was give me a breast massage... take note gents... a breast massage relieves stress, helps improve the mood, and allows most women to open up more sexually.

Last night our position was the magice bullet...fyi.. enjoy the rest of your day!

Challenge goes missionary

Our second day of the challenge (Jan 2nd). We laid in bed chatting long after the kids had shut their eyes and finally gone to sleep. There is a comfort between us that I thoroughly appreciate and enjoy. I am finding the effects of this challenge interesting, but I'll talk about that another day.

As it often does, our lovemaking began with gentle kissing that merged into the mingling of our bodies. I felt his hands on my breasts at first, searching for a path beneath the light cotton of my tank top. Then a hand between my legs, which caused a flood of sensations to pass through my body.

Then, in one swift move, I pulled him on top of me into missionary. Funny, I never thought about it much before, but we rarely have missionary style sex. He moved on top of me with great expertise, finding just the right angle to increase my pleasure. we kissed passionately as we made love.

At some point we switched into 2 or 3 more positions, but the rest is truly a blur of wonder and passion. The specific details melting from my mind. Once again, we lay in orgasmic bliss, then began our lovemaking over again. This time we merged into the mantrap:-) Before we were done, I'd had 3 orgasms and he'd had two...always one up:-) Enjoy your day!

Tested on the first day!

Last night at 12am on Jan 1st was the official start for our challenge. We had planned on renting a hotel room and going out together on New Year's eve, but life is all about change of course. I came home with a sore throat and some major pms cramps... I crawled into bed with a good book and promptly fell asleep long before midnight. I know, I know, not entertaining...but that's life.

This morning I woke and still didn't feel much better, so I thought there's no time like the present... Thank you for choosing the sexy spoon as our first position! That is a nice position when you're not feeling your best. Thank goodness we didn't have to do some intense acrobatic moves with me in such rough shape.

We have done the sexy spoon plenty of times, but never started with it, we've always maneuvered into it gradually. Now I know why... I am not built to start off in that position... we rapidly realized it was going to be uncomfortable, so we started off in sexy scissors, and melted into sexy spoon when it felt right.

It is a wonderful position. Ladies, if you position your upper body just right (experiment until you find the right angle for you) you will be able to line things up so that you receive some wonderful g-spot stimulation. For me, I pull my upper body forward so that we are in sort of a doggy style sexy spoon combo. This allows my lover to pleasure my g-spot with his wand of light. If you're so inclined, he can also reach his hands between your legs and pleasure your clitoris as well... which makes for a wonderful combination.

As we relaxed into wave after wave of orgasmic bliss, we lay together in silent union, sharing heart energy, sweet kisses, and loving embraces. After a few moments, I rose from the bed to take a post-sex pee and promptly walked into our space heater! Nice end to a wonderful love making session. Like I always say, I am elegant until I'm not.
Happy New Year's everyone... I will keep you updated daily:-)

Daily sex as a New Year's Resolution

While many people are deciding what to choose as their new year's resolution, we are gearing up for our challenge - to have sex everyday for one year beginning on January 1st, 2010. I didn't think of it as a new year's resolution, but I suppose it makes perfect sense. A year of daily sex with my husband, soul mate, and lover as my new year's resolution.

I love it! Forget losing weight, making more money, or any other potential resolutions, I choose sex! I think it is a fantastic way to focus on our relationship, which can only benefit every aspect of life... I am curious, what's your new year's resolution... This is the first one I have ever set for myself!

Happy Holidays to you all and I truly wish you a wonderful New Year's Eve and a fantastic New Year! Yes, I will keep you posted on our development:-)

365 day sex challenge

My husband and I have been together for over a decade... to us, it seems like we've never not been together. We are one of those couples who found each other one fateful afternoon and have been inseparable since. We have four beautiful children and a wonderful life together... We have explored Tantric sex for many years and have been looking for new and exciting positions and activities to add to our lovemaking...

This is our challenge to you... We are committing to 365 days of sex... We will have sex once per day and participate in one additional sexual activity... oral sex, sex toy sex, foreplay,. orgasmic mediation, etc. each and everyday for the next 365 days... Regardless of illness, family issues, or any other potential inconveniences.

Our first task... to come up with this years program of positions and additional sexual adventures ... Your task: we want to hear your thoughts, suggested positions, and additional sex adventure ideas... We will choose from your suggestions and create our yearly program...try one sexual position per day and one sexual adventure outside of penetrative sex per day and then blog about our experiences...