Okay folks, this is the situation... we currently live on a tiny little isolated island in a small one room cabin with four kids. I am commuting 5 hours a day to and from work, my husband is working nearly full time hours, and our kids are night hawks...
The bottom line is that we have been managing to sneak in some quick nooky nearly daily, but there are many challenges we currently face, as mentioned above. In addition, my internet connection has been down for days.
On Feb 15th, we are moving to the city to pursue our dreams. We will have a huge bed, a master bathroom with a full bath and tonnes of mirrors, not to mention, I will be home more. So, I propose that we continue with our intimacy as a test run, but re-start our challenge officially without interruption (from the internet crashing, kids everywhere, and me traveling).
So, we will officially re-start the 365 day sex challenge on February 15th, 2010... What I have learned so far... even those of us who can't get enough sex face challenges when attempting to have sex daily... I will continue to update...
Friday, January 15, 2010
Monday, January 11, 2010
I love sex
That's the message for today! I LOVE SEX! As a Sex educator and an intimacy coach, I hear so many couples expressing dissatisfaction with sex life... not us... after more than a decade of sex, it seems that our love life only gets better with age:-)
We made such sweet love last night, it almost made me cry tears of joy. The feeling of your man's hands expertly caressing your body, pushing your buttons, and bringing you to that ecstatic state is simply divine. I suppose I will go into more detail as the challenge continues and I become increasingly comfortable with blogging, so stay tuned:-)
We made such sweet love last night, it almost made me cry tears of joy. The feeling of your man's hands expertly caressing your body, pushing your buttons, and bringing you to that ecstatic state is simply divine. I suppose I will go into more detail as the challenge continues and I become increasingly comfortable with blogging, so stay tuned:-)
Sunday, January 10, 2010
Challenge with the challenge:-)
Sorry for the long delay folks. I was struggling with the openness of a blog... it feels a tad voyeuristic, which is not in my nature. However, a wonderful lady made some extremely valid points about the value of making our challenge public... and so, the challenge remains in the public eye:-)
The way I communicate and how I express myself may shift until I find a routine that works for me, but I promise to keep blogging. So, now for the update...
We have missed 3 days so far. The one time of the month I am not usually up for a romp is the first day of my cycle. That held true this month... I couldn't contemplate having sex while I was bleeding like a stuck pig... I know, I know, I need to embrace my cycle... while I try, I just don't seem to be there...
I imagined having sex in our bed, getting up and finding that my bed looked like someone had clubbed a baby seal... I know, what an image... you see what I was dealing with? What was interesting is that, rapidly, one day turned into 3 days...So, here we are, back on track and we have 3 days to make up... I will keep you posted. It is now my goal to blog each day of the challenge...
The way I communicate and how I express myself may shift until I find a routine that works for me, but I promise to keep blogging. So, now for the update...
We have missed 3 days so far. The one time of the month I am not usually up for a romp is the first day of my cycle. That held true this month... I couldn't contemplate having sex while I was bleeding like a stuck pig... I know, I know, I need to embrace my cycle... while I try, I just don't seem to be there...
I imagined having sex in our bed, getting up and finding that my bed looked like someone had clubbed a baby seal... I know, what an image... you see what I was dealing with? What was interesting is that, rapidly, one day turned into 3 days...So, here we are, back on track and we have 3 days to make up... I will keep you posted. It is now my goal to blog each day of the challenge...
Monday, January 4, 2010
Double Take
Day 3 was a wonderful day for my husband and I. For some reason, we were overly affectionate with one another. We enjoyed some goat's cheese, crackers, olives, and red wine for lunch, had a wonderful family dinner and spent the rest of the evening cuddling and chatting.
Everyone is back to school, so the kids were in bed earlier than usual. We laid in bed chatting as and then he made his move:-) This challenge makes me think about things on a deeper level. The fine details of our sexual relationship stand out more in my mind.
What I have noticed most is that the more sex we have, the more sex we desire:-) It doesn't seem possible for us to lose interest. The first thing he did last night during our romantic encounter was give me a breast massage... take note gents... a breast massage relieves stress, helps improve the mood, and allows most women to open up more sexually.
Last night our position was the magice bullet...fyi.. enjoy the rest of your day!
Everyone is back to school, so the kids were in bed earlier than usual. We laid in bed chatting as and then he made his move:-) This challenge makes me think about things on a deeper level. The fine details of our sexual relationship stand out more in my mind.
What I have noticed most is that the more sex we have, the more sex we desire:-) It doesn't seem possible for us to lose interest. The first thing he did last night during our romantic encounter was give me a breast massage... take note gents... a breast massage relieves stress, helps improve the mood, and allows most women to open up more sexually.
Last night our position was the magice bullet...fyi.. enjoy the rest of your day!
Sunday, January 3, 2010
Challenge goes missionary
Our second day of the challenge (Jan 2nd). We laid in bed chatting long after the kids had shut their eyes and finally gone to sleep. There is a comfort between us that I thoroughly appreciate and enjoy. I am finding the effects of this challenge interesting, but I'll talk about that another day.
As it often does, our lovemaking began with gentle kissing that merged into the mingling of our bodies. I felt his hands on my breasts at first, searching for a path beneath the light cotton of my tank top. Then a hand between my legs, which caused a flood of sensations to pass through my body.
Then, in one swift move, I pulled him on top of me into missionary. Funny, I never thought about it much before, but we rarely have missionary style sex. He moved on top of me with great expertise, finding just the right angle to increase my pleasure. we kissed passionately as we made love.
At some point we switched into 2 or 3 more positions, but the rest is truly a blur of wonder and passion. The specific details melting from my mind. Once again, we lay in orgasmic bliss, then began our lovemaking over again. This time we merged into the mantrap:-) Before we were done, I'd had 3 orgasms and he'd had two...always one up:-) Enjoy your day!
As it often does, our lovemaking began with gentle kissing that merged into the mingling of our bodies. I felt his hands on my breasts at first, searching for a path beneath the light cotton of my tank top. Then a hand between my legs, which caused a flood of sensations to pass through my body.
Then, in one swift move, I pulled him on top of me into missionary. Funny, I never thought about it much before, but we rarely have missionary style sex. He moved on top of me with great expertise, finding just the right angle to increase my pleasure. we kissed passionately as we made love.
At some point we switched into 2 or 3 more positions, but the rest is truly a blur of wonder and passion. The specific details melting from my mind. Once again, we lay in orgasmic bliss, then began our lovemaking over again. This time we merged into the mantrap:-) Before we were done, I'd had 3 orgasms and he'd had two...always one up:-) Enjoy your day!
Friday, January 1, 2010
Tested on the first day!
Last night at 12am on Jan 1st was the official start for our challenge. We had planned on renting a hotel room and going out together on New Year's eve, but life is all about change of course. I came home with a sore throat and some major pms cramps... I crawled into bed with a good book and promptly fell asleep long before midnight. I know, I know, not entertaining...but that's life.
This morning I woke and still didn't feel much better, so I thought there's no time like the present... Thank you for choosing the sexy spoon as our first position! That is a nice position when you're not feeling your best. Thank goodness we didn't have to do some intense acrobatic moves with me in such rough shape.
We have done the sexy spoon plenty of times, but never started with it, we've always maneuvered into it gradually. Now I know why... I am not built to start off in that position... we rapidly realized it was going to be uncomfortable, so we started off in sexy scissors, and melted into sexy spoon when it felt right.
It is a wonderful position. Ladies, if you position your upper body just right (experiment until you find the right angle for you) you will be able to line things up so that you receive some wonderful g-spot stimulation. For me, I pull my upper body forward so that we are in sort of a doggy style sexy spoon combo. This allows my lover to pleasure my g-spot with his wand of light. If you're so inclined, he can also reach his hands between your legs and pleasure your clitoris as well... which makes for a wonderful combination.
As we relaxed into wave after wave of orgasmic bliss, we lay together in silent union, sharing heart energy, sweet kisses, and loving embraces. After a few moments, I rose from the bed to take a post-sex pee and promptly walked into our space heater! Nice end to a wonderful love making session. Like I always say, I am elegant until I'm not.
Happy New Year's everyone... I will keep you updated daily:-)
This morning I woke and still didn't feel much better, so I thought there's no time like the present... Thank you for choosing the sexy spoon as our first position! That is a nice position when you're not feeling your best. Thank goodness we didn't have to do some intense acrobatic moves with me in such rough shape.
We have done the sexy spoon plenty of times, but never started with it, we've always maneuvered into it gradually. Now I know why... I am not built to start off in that position... we rapidly realized it was going to be uncomfortable, so we started off in sexy scissors, and melted into sexy spoon when it felt right.
It is a wonderful position. Ladies, if you position your upper body just right (experiment until you find the right angle for you) you will be able to line things up so that you receive some wonderful g-spot stimulation. For me, I pull my upper body forward so that we are in sort of a doggy style sexy spoon combo. This allows my lover to pleasure my g-spot with his wand of light. If you're so inclined, he can also reach his hands between your legs and pleasure your clitoris as well... which makes for a wonderful combination.
As we relaxed into wave after wave of orgasmic bliss, we lay together in silent union, sharing heart energy, sweet kisses, and loving embraces. After a few moments, I rose from the bed to take a post-sex pee and promptly walked into our space heater! Nice end to a wonderful love making session. Like I always say, I am elegant until I'm not.
Happy New Year's everyone... I will keep you updated daily:-)
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