365 Days of Sex!

365 Days of Sex!
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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Daily sex as a New Year's Resolution

While many people are deciding what to choose as their new year's resolution, we are gearing up for our challenge - to have sex everyday for one year beginning on January 1st, 2010. I didn't think of it as a new year's resolution, but I suppose it makes perfect sense. A year of daily sex with my husband, soul mate, and lover as my new year's resolution.

I love it! Forget losing weight, making more money, or any other potential resolutions, I choose sex! I think it is a fantastic way to focus on our relationship, which can only benefit every aspect of life... I am curious, what's your new year's resolution... This is the first one I have ever set for myself!

Happy Holidays to you all and I truly wish you a wonderful New Year's Eve and a fantastic New Year! Yes, I will keep you posted on our development:-)

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Parenting and Sex Don't Mix

So, my husband and I decided that, considering we live in a small rustic cabin, we should treat ourselves to a night on the town. Seemed like a grand idea... out to Moxie's for a couple glasses of wine, some bruschetta, and a wonderful meal. Just as I brought my wine glass to my lips to take my first sip.... BRING... cell phone... It's our youngest daughter on the phone and she wants me to tell her brother to be nice... I manage to work out the conflict. I can hear my mother supporting in the background and my oldest daughter is doing her best to remain calm in the face of the newest challenge.

We finish our dinner in peace, then decide to go for a romantic stroll... BRING... another conflict... this one is pretty easy to sort out.. After our walk, we drive to the hotel with thoughts of erotic moments dancing through our heads. We call my mom, who assures us that the kids are fine. We say our good nights and begin our wild night of passion. Well, sort of.. first we watch the terrible, yet somehow funny Cougar Town, I take a bath to relax, and then...

BRING... just as my husband begins to kiss me. It's our 5 year old again, who wants us to come home. We tell her there are no ferries, so we can't, which makes her cry. I get a little emotional, but my husband reminds me that this is our second night away from our children in over 13 years...This helps me overcome my guilt for taking time alone with my husband. We begin kissing, which turns into full on foreplay, and then... just as his tongue begins to gently and expertly explore me BRING... oh my gosh, is this a conspiracy?...

The moment fades as I once again console my youngest daughter and then... without missing a beat, we're back at it... Not quite an hour into our romantic rendevous, I am heading towards that enlightened moment where thoughts are fleeting, the energy in my body is reacting to the sensations, I am feeling like I might have the best climax of my life BRING... I look at the clock 12:04 am ... My patience is dwindling, but I am a mother first after all... It is my 11 year old boy... He had a bad dream...My husband and I stay connected throughout the conversation trying to maintain our current level of energy... I manage to calm my oldest boy down.

Finally, uninterrupted, we weave our energy together, building into a frenzy of passion and melt into a state of pure bliss as we climax as one...

The bottom line... making love when you have four kids (or 1 or 2, or 3) takes a bit of planning and some serious commitment.. but it's worth it..

May you all have a lovely Christmas Eve and a Merry Christmas..

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Sex, Love, and Rock and Roll

This is what's on my mind today... sex, love, and music... Thses are the things that feed my soul... Sex is more than penetration to me.. it is about conenction, letting go, and freeing yourself from ego. Love is about connection. Connection for me flows like water towards my husband, children, family, and friends...

Music...Years ago our good friends gave us this wonderful little wall hanging.. it has only five little words on it "Music makes people more beautiful". Music moves me... allows me to feel beyond myself and understand the lives of others... What does this have to do with the 365 day sex challenge? This challenge is about loving, feeling and being one with myself and my life partner... may we lose ourselves in connection, lust, love, and allow music to moves us...may you also fimd your bliss...

Monday, December 21, 2009

Outer Influences

Just got back from listening to Valdy sing Christmas carols... kids running around, the air filled with laughter, and oh yes, the fire bin astrologer.. There's a saying around here.... "only on Salt Spring"... yes, only on Salt Spring can you walk down to the warf, park your but by a burn barrel and have your astrology chart read for you by the light of the moon while listening to Valdy and friends...

My hubby and I stole a few sweet kisses and some loving glances at each other from across the fire as the wandering astrologer confirms that our charts, signs, planets, and all universal forces support that we are a match. Oh, by the way, my husband's name is Mountain and yes, his mother gave him that name at birth. He is truly my Mountain... I noticed that we have some votes on the first sex position.. thank you for your votes! Enjoy the rest of your evening... Joy (Joy is just my nickname...fyi).

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Committed

Okay, so the weight of our decision has hit, but we are committed.. I read about another woman who called the 365 day sex challenge a logistical nightmare... different thoughts are running through my mind... the idea of sex every day during my moon cycle, not spending one night away from my husand for the next year, etc.

My husband is walking around in a state of ignorant bliss... totally unaware of some of the challenges we may face...(yes, I asked him if it would piss him off if I said that... he responded with ... "that remains to be seen, but I don't plan on censoring you")... I decided I should tell my wonderful and always accepting sister about the challenge before she hears about it elsewhere... she was supportive..maybe a tad skeptical, but what was important to me... she understands..truly

Have a wonderful evening... Joy

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Start Date January 1st, 2010

Okay, we have chosen our start date... January 1st, 2010.. We have our first position suggestion... Backdoor Doggy Style will be our 365 position... hmmm...

365 day sex challenge

My husband and I have been together for over a decade... to us, it seems like we've never not been together. We are one of those couples who found each other one fateful afternoon and have been inseparable since. We have four beautiful children and a wonderful life together... We have explored Tantric sex for many years and have been looking for new and exciting positions and activities to add to our lovemaking...

This is our challenge to you... We are committing to 365 days of sex... We will have sex once per day and participate in one additional sexual activity... oral sex, sex toy sex, foreplay,. orgasmic mediation, etc. each and everyday for the next 365 days... Regardless of illness, family issues, or any other potential inconveniences.

Our first task... to come up with this years program of positions and additional sexual adventures ... Your task: we want to hear your thoughts, suggested positions, and additional sex adventure ideas... We will choose from your suggestions and create our yearly program...try one sexual position per day and one sexual adventure outside of penetrative sex per day and then blog about our experiences...